The term “discipleship” is used routinely by churches worldwide to describe their commitment to help Christians grow spiritually. But only rarely do you find its practice being as rich and mature as what Tom Cheshire and Tom Gensler have described in Real Life Discipleship. Curriculum is important but the secret sauce to major life impact is found in their understanding and practice of one life impacting another’s life. I recommend this book to anyone who wants to enhance one’s spiritual pilgrimage with profound life transformation. Pastor Randy Pope, Perimeter Church – Atlanta, GA

What a gift! I believe that this book is the answer to the question and the longing on the hearts of so many Christian men- ‘what is a godly man and how do I become one?’ Tom Cheshire and Tom Gensler not only tells us what it means to be a godly man but also compellingly shows us how to become one. This book is a valuable resource! Dr. Crawford W. Loritts, Jr. – Author, Speaker – Sr. Pastor Fellowship Bible Church – Roswell, Georgia

Most of us would agree that a disciple is ‘one who follows Jesus’. Where we might disagree is how to make a disciple – how to make ‘one who follows Jesus’. Tom Cheshire and Tom Gensler embrace the ministry philosophy of the Apostle Paul who did more than teach and encourage first century believers to follow Jesus, he instructed them to ‘Follow me, as I follow Christ’. This model of I Corinthians 11:1 is the basis for ‘Real Life Discipleship’. Grab this book and see what men following men who follow Jesus looks like in the twenty first century. Brian Doyle, Founder and President – Iron Sharpens Iron

Relational, intentional, strategic discipling, as illustrated in Tom and Tom’s writing, is what Jesus’ world-reaching church of the future must and will look like. Get on board asap! Hal Perkins, Conference Speaker & Author of “Discipled by Jesus” and “If Jesus Were a Parent”

Real Life Discipleship is a stick of dynamite for any man who seeks to be a part of Jesus prophetic legacy and example of relational discipleship. The “Toms” on the front cover who laid out this powerful road map for you are not blowing out smoke or nice sounding theology with zero functionality. You will find clarity, integrity, and effectiveness forged in the crucible of the relationships they formed with actual men they discipled and deployed. Kenny Luck – Founder, Every Man Ministries – Author of Dangerous Good: The Coming Revolution of Men Who Care and Sleeping Giant: No Move of God Without Men of God – Executive Pastor of Leadership, Crossline Community Church

Tom Cheshire and Tom Gensler have learned firsthand how life-changing it can be to have the wisdom and guidance of a mature, godly man. Sadly enough, effective discipleship has gone by the wayside in many segments of the Church – but this vital, biblically mandated practice has the potential to change lives and transform families. I hope this compelling volume leads many men to consider how they are called to “do life” with other Christian men. Jim Daly, President – Focus on the Family

Tom Gensler and Tom Chesire are spiritual studs! These men walk the walk and talk the talk. Their new book puts down on paper what they have been modeling and teaching for years. It is a practical, Biblical and accessible primer for discipling men. Every local Church and every Pastor needs this tool in his own hands and in the hands of their men. God is raising up a generation of men who are servant-leaders for Christ and this new book by Tom Gensler and Tom Chesire is helping it happen! JP Jones – Senior Pastor Crossline Church, Author, “Facing Goliath” – Radio Bible Teacher, “Truth that Changes Lives” – Adjunct Professor of Theology, Biola University – Men’s Speaker, Iron Sharpens

Finally, someone has written a practical book about discipleship! God created men to lead other men to be like Christ. Unfortunately, few men have ever had someone show them how to lead other men. This book gives the basic building blocks that teach men how to lead other men to become more like Christ. Real Life Discipleship is written to help every man in the church to start living out the Great Commission. Chaplain Retired Jeff Struecker, formerly of the 75th Ranger Regiment

In over thirty years of ministry to men I have concluded that it takes a relational environment in order for truth to become transformational. Tom Cheshire and Tom Gensler have unpacked this idea brilliantly in Real-Life Discipleship. From the opening display of vulnerability and humility, to exposing the issues that hinder and bring men to passivity and the ultimate revealing of a practical plan, they help the reader discover Jesus simple model for real discipleship. A must read for every Pastor, leader and man who truly wants to grow and help other men do the same. Vince D’Acchioli Founder, On Target Ministries

Let’s cut to the chase. Show me HOW to do this crucial disciple-making work in the lives of men I know. Tom and Tom do this. They do it well in this book. Come on, men. This is HOW we can do this and do it well. Let’s get it done. Bruce W. Fong,ThM,PhD – Dean and Professor of Pastoral Ministries, Dallas Theological Seminary Houston

Deep and lasting change does not occur outside of transformational relationships; relationships that become the “life on life” context where the grace of the Gospel can confront our guilt and shame.Tom and Tom are not mere theorists.They live this. I am grateful for this highly practical tool that helps men take steps toward these kinds of intentional relationships. Jeff Schulte, Founder & Executive Director – www.tinman.life

I am excited that Tom Cheshire and Tom Gensler have provided us from their own lives how real life, practical discipleship works. I highly recommend you read their book. Dr. Robert Lewis – Author, Founder-Men’s Fraternity

Finally, a book that does more than define discipleship. Cheshire and Gensler provide sound biblical teaching and engaging real-life stories that illustrate the truth they’re presenting. If you’re eager to grow as a disciple of Jesus and help other men grow along with you . . . this book is a must-read. Bill Perkins, Author and Speaker

Jesus instructed us to go and make disciples, but in today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to put your head down, go through the motions and never have deep conversation or connection with another man. Tom and Tom have created a resource that can help men become the iron that strategically sharpens others. It is simple, short and practical. Don Davis Retired NFL player and Super Bowl Champion – Director of Football, Pro Athletes Outreach

Tom Cheshire and Tom Gensler have done much more than just write an academic book on men’s discipleship. They have actually put down on paper a biblical, grace-filled, practical, sometimes messy guide for disciple making. Drawing from their own personal journeys as well as from their years of work in real life ministry with men, they have developed a tool that can help ordinary men step up and respond to Jesus’ call to “go and make disciples.” Rick Caldwell, Director of Authentic Manhood – 33 the Series